What is the best way to learn about people ? – Listen to them, let them talk

Too many times these days people want to be heard, but no one wants to listen.

In this modern age of communication, there are so many channels to communicate than ever before; 

• Social Media – (Facebook, Linked In, TicToc, Instagram, Twitter) 
• Videos – (YouTube, Vimeo)
• Blogs, Email

People want to be listened to, want someone to take a genuine interest in themselves, through face to face communication

When we listen to people, we learn about their values, their hopes and dreams, their fears and challenges. We learn about their unique experiences and perspectives. We learn about what makes them human.

Listening to people is also a way to show them that we care about them. When we take the time to listen to someone, we are saying to them, “Your story matters. You matter.”

Here are some tips for listening effectively:

• Be present. Give the person your full attention and avoid distractions.
• Make eye contact. This shows that you are interested in what they have to say.
• Be non-judgmental. Listen with an open mind and heart.
• Ask clarifying questions. This shows that you are paying attention and that you are interested in learning more.
• Reflect back what you have heard. This helps to ensure that you understand what the person is saying and that you are on the same page.

Listening is a skill that takes practice, but it is one of the most important skills we can learn. By listening to people, we can learn about ourselves and the world around us. We can build stronger relationships and create a more connected community.

Too many times these days people want to be heard, but no one wants to listen.

It’s true that many people today crave attention and validation. They want to be heard and understood. But it’s also true that many people are not very good at listening. They are more interested in talking about themselves than in listening to others.

There are a few reasons why this might be the case. One reason is that we live in a very fast-paced society. We are constantly bombarded with information and stimulation. It’s easy to get caught up in the noise and forget to take the time to listen to others.

Another reason is that we are often insecure. We worry about what others think of us and we want to present ourselves in the best possible light. This can make it difficult to be truly open and vulnerable with others.

Finally, some people simply don’t know how to listen effectively. They may interrupt, give unsolicited advice, or daydream while someone is talking.

If you want to be a better listener, here are a few tips:

• Be present. Put away your phone and other distractions. Give the person your full attention.
• Make eye contact. This shows that you are interested in what they have to say.
• Be non-judgmental. Listen with an open mind and heart.
• Ask clarifying questions. This shows that you are paying attention and that you are interested in learning more.
• Reflect back what you have heard. This helps to ensure that you understand what the person is saying and that you are on the same page.

Listening is a gift. It is a way of showing someone that you care about them and that their story matters.

People want to be listened to, want someone to understand them, to empathize with them, to care about what they have to say.

When we listen to people, we are doing more than just hearing their words. We are also listening to their emotions, their experiences, and their perspectives. We are trying to understand them on a deeper level.

When we listen to people with empathy, we are trying to see things from their point of view. We are trying to understand their feelings and experiences. We are trying to care about what matters to them.

Listening with empathy is a skill that takes practice, but it is one of the most important skills we can learn. It allows us to build stronger relationships, create a more connected community, and make a positive impact on the world.

So next time someone wants to talk to you, really listen. Put away your phone, make eye contact, and give them your full attention. Ask questions, reflect back what you have heard, and try to see things from their point of view. You may be surprised at what you learn.

#Listen #PowerOfListening #ShowYouCareAndListen